Couple is Trouble.Single is Simple.

LOVE. This thought is about love between man and woman. Not about our love to Allah, our Prophet and our family. 

 'Couple is Trouble and Single is Simple.'

 This is my friend's opinion which I think have the strong point so we can think seriously. 

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم . 

"I do agree with the statement 'couple is trouble and single is simple'. Couple means fall in love and falling in love isn't easy. Once you fall, sometimes its hard for you to get up again and the risk to be falling again remains. In love means you have partner and that mades couple. You have to concentrate on your partner through your relationship. His/her feelings, avtivities and even unnecessery things. Frankly speaking it's exhausted! You surely have A LOT to think instead of thinking his/her favourite things; movies and clothes for instances. Right? Try thinking about your grades , eheh your partner wouldn't be that important. And I would add that it's a waste of time!

And single is simple. Cause you're not officially bonded to anyone and anybody. You're free to do whatever you want, and achieve your dreams.

"Dream comes slow and it goes so fast"- The Passenger

You're not worth for just a simple, typical relationship. You worth for more than that, it's just you who don't realize it yet.

Just think like this "Your life is yours, dont let anyone invade it". ^^

'You only need the light when it's burning low. Only miss the sun when it starts to snow. Only know you've been high when you're feeling low. Only hate the road when you're missing home' - The Passenger

It's good to ponder some good lyrics, despite of what genre the songs are.

Things happen for a reason and you surely don't wanna regret over some decisions you made in your life. Cause ONLY you who can make that decision and no one else can. Dont waste your time for a typical teenage fairy-like love dreams.

الحمدالله.

Dah dah. Sorry broken english. Hihi. Dan saya bercakap BUKAN berdasarkan pengalaman. Just a piece of unexperienced thought, maybe.

And even you're meant for him/her, when you get married with your partner how would you spend the rest of your life with him/her ?

I'm telling you now that you already knew all about him/her BEFORE you get married; the likes and the hates, there's nothing left for you to chat with him/her for the next 20 years, or more I think.

So, mystery is better ! "


Yup. This is her opinion which I strongly agree. When I agree, it doesn't mean that you have to agree too. Just have a serious thought about this and I believe many people will agree.

And here comes my own thought. 

If we once already have 'someone ' special in our heart. And if with God's will, he or she is not to be our destiny, or 'Jodoh', I think its a pity for our real partner (husband or wife) when he or she don't get to be the first one in our heart.

'Men always want to be woman's first love- women like to be a man last romance.' 
-OSCAR WILDE 


But for me, this quote make it seems so easy to fall in love again and again. And for something that can just come and go whenever its like, how can you call this thing LOVE?

***
I pray that my first and last love is the same person. Ameen.

#LOVEafterNIKAHisTHEBEST

In shaa Allah.

P/s: actually, this is just a random thought to convince non muslim that single is better than couple. feel free to have your own opinion. 

But for Muslim, there are still a lot of debate about love before and after marriage. Yet still in my opinion love after marriage is better 


*orang study biology esok exam, aku sibuk test bakat buat essay BI. Pray for me tomorrow.

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